When it comes to searching for a man, there are a few things that will have him quickly trying to find an escape route on the first date. Here are 10 things that women do that turn men away.
Too Much Phone Time
“Not being able to put down a phone.”
What are you focused on when you are with your potential man? The messages that keep popping up on your phone or the guy in front of you. Switch your phone off, or you will soon find that the man is doing the turning off by walking away from you.
Thinking You Have the Right to Everything
“From my experience, rich girls can be fun, but damn.”
Women who feel they are entitled to all that life offers causes men to run for the hills. It may not be the female’s fault as she may have been given everything by her parents/family. Now she is conditioned with that expectation.
Reduce the Crazy
“When they take pride in calling themself crazy.”
We all love a person who is a little different. But to wear crazy as a badge of honor will have the man wriggling nervously in his seat.
You Aren’t a Conversationalist
“When you have to carry the conversation all by yourself.”
Ever have a date when it’s only you doing all the talking? It’s awkward and tiring. Please don’t make your date the one that has to keep the conversation going. The guy will be quietly thinking of a way to escape from you.
Can’t Use Initiative
“When she doesn’t initiate anything. I’m looking for a partner, not an NPC.”
If a guy feels like he’s always the one who has to make the first move, he’ll soon become tired of the relationship. Then he will initiate something…saying “Good riddance” to you.
Being Quiet About What You Want
“I’ve been dating someone for two months, and they are completely content just sitting there and never speaking up. I tested her last week. She stayed over, and in the morning, I had my cup of coffee. I don’t eat breakfast, usually lunch around 1 pm. She woke up at 10 am and joined me on the couch. We sat there mindlessly watching stupid TV for hours. I waited to see if she would suggest a show, a movie, something to do, OR THAT SHE WAS HUNGRY. Finally, around 1 pm, I asked if she was hungry, and she couldn’t have said, “OMG, I’M STARVING” any faster. I just can’t handle the idea that my partner would sit there wanting X Y Z and not being able to speak up. Please note, I absolutely do not make her feel like her opinions aren’t valid.”
“It’s okay to tell your man what you want. Speak up when you have a problem or are in need of something. Always remember, men aren’t mind readers. Staying silent just makes things awkward and plants the seeds for a potential argument later.”
Don’t Be Overly Judgmental
“Stop talking about other people so negatively. My sister always flames someone she saw on social media, talking about how they’re so fat, so ugly, looks old, going nowhere in life, how ‘what the heck is she wearing ewwwwww’ then proceeds to laugh about their shoes. When I hear my sister talking to her friends, it feels like their conversation is always centered around some negative thing and how this negative thing makes their ‘in group’ better than the individual.”
“That is disgusting, bro. Stop acting like that. Stop looking for every moment to boost your own ego somehow.”
“People who are constantly pointing out the worse points in others are an instant turn-off. It will have your man wondering what you are saying about him behind his back.”
Social Media Obsession
“Social media addicts. The kind that has no depth to their character, serious narcissistic tendencies, and the inability to think and behave beyond their smartphones.”
“Do you feel the need to take selfies every five minutes and then upload them to your social media, no matter where you are? Men will see you as needy and insecure. Do you want a relationship with a real person or your virtual audience?”
Think You’re So Beautiful
“Girls who know they are pretty and treat other girls as outcasts – zero respect.”
“Girls like this may be beautiful on the outside, but inside, they are toxic. You will soon find men being turned off as you make a snide remark about the looks of a less attractive female. Remember, beauty fades.”
Don’t Be Conceited
“I went out with a girl once who literally only talked about herself, and by that, I mean I picked her up, and she was off about her and only her for the next few hours. Never made the slightest attempt to get to know me.”
“After I dropped her off and drove home, I got out my phone to send the ‘Didn’t feel a connection’ text when, lo and behold, she sent the same to me.”
“Here is one of the quickest turn-offs. Talk about yourself non-stop, and then see how your date goes.”
When it comes to the first date, it’s all about making a connection. Seeing if you and the potential man are compatible. If you are guilty of doing any of the things mentioned in the list, then you have set yourself up to fail before you even reach first base.
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