Y’all Don’t Understand: 18 Southern Expressions That Perplex the Masses

If you’ve never encountered phrases like “fixin’ to” or “kiss my grits,” you might not be steeped in the distinctive language of the American South. In the warmth of the Southern states, a unique linguistic journey unfolds, leaving those unaware of its complexities a little confused. Fear not, for here we delve into and demystify 18 phrases that are quintessentially Southern—expressions so deeply rooted in the region that decoding them might require a linguistic guide for non-Southerners. So, pull up a rocking chair, enjoy a sip of sweet tea, and let’s navigate this linguistic journey together.

Bless Your Heart

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Southerners use this phrase to express sympathy or condescension, conveying empathy or implying someone is a bit naive.

Fixin’ to

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When someone says they’re “fixin’ to” do something, it means they are about to do it or have plans to do so in the near future, indicating intent or preparation.

Y’all

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A contraction of “you all,” “y’all” is a plural form of “you,” commonly used in the South to address a group of people.

Coke

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In the South, “Coke” is a generic term for any carbonated beverage, regardless of brand.

Might could

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This phrase combines “might” and “could” to express a possibility or potential ability to do something, adding nuance to likelihood.

Blessin’ your heart

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Similar to “bless your heart,” this phrase is used to express sympathy or understanding, with a potential sense of pity or amusement.

Over yonder

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“Over yonder” indicates a location a bit further away but still within sight, offering a quaint way of describing a spot not too far off.

Hushpuppies

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In the South, “hushpuppies” are deep-fried cornmeal dough balls, served as a side dish or used to tell someone to be quiet.

All y’all

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An extension of “y’all,” “all y’all” emphasizes a larger or more inclusive group of people.

Buggy

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In the South, a “buggy” is a shopping cart. This is often confused with people thinking they are talking about the number of bugs in the air at any one time.

How’s your mama and them?

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A common Southern greeting inquiring about the well-being of the person addressed, as well as their family and extended social circle.

Cattywampus

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If something is “cattywampus,” it’s askew or awry, describing something not quite right or out of order.

Fixin’ a mess

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“Fixin’ a mess” means cleaning up or organizing a situation, implying a proactive approach to addressing a problem.

Kiss my grits

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A Southern expression of frustration or disdain, popularized by the TV show “Alice.”

Coke slaw

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In the South, “coke slaw” is another way to say coleslaw, a salad made with shredded cabbage and a mayonnaise-based dressing.

Mashin’ buttons

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Southerners might say they’re “mashin’ buttons” when playing video games, a regional twist on pressing buttons.

Piddlin’

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If someone is “piddlin’,” they are engaging in small, unimportant tasks or activities, often describing minor, leisurely actions.

Buggy whip

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Referring to something outdated or unnecessary, “buggy whip” is a Southern term highlighting the obsolescence of an object or idea, often used in the context of technology or practices that have fallen out of use.

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